I was born in 1980 and graduated high school in 1998 at 17, right in the middle of the great “everyone must go to college” push. Teachers said it. Counselors said it. Commercials said it. College wasn’t presented as an option — it was presented as the only door out of the building. But here’s…

Here’s a little social experiment you can run for free, from anywhere, with zero equipment: Walk up to a man — any man, pick one — and ask him, with genuine curiosity and zero malice: “What do you think is wrong with men?” Then just… watch. Watch the jaw tighten. Watch the eyes dart. Watch…

I’m writing this from an ER bed. It’s 10pm on a Friday, and I’m here because I’ve been bleeding — the kind of bleeding you don’t ignore — and I ignored it anyway. The first time it happened was the day after my birthday. I was getting on a plane to Amsterdam. Did I cancel…